at our wedding, we put a bag of white chocolate sea shells on each person's napkin. the chocolates were made by a lady in wilmington, and my mom and i (mostly my mom) made the tags. everyone helped tie them to the bags.
i love getting a favor at a wedding. lots of times you don't, but i think you should.
you bought a new dress. its the least they can do.
martha has some ideas as well, naturally.
rosemary sea salts
mini pecan pies
bird's nestpotted place card